Harsh Truths That You Don't Want to Hear

Yeah, when I said I wanted to go on rollercoasters this summer, I meant Six-Flags, not emotional ones. I think it's safe to say that we all have had a little bit too much time to think. As crazy as it's been, maybe it's for the best. Here are some harsh truths that I, along with many of you had to face. 

No One is Coming to Save You 

It's all on you, homie! People will lend their emotional support but know that it is limited. People have good intentions but they also have their own problems in life to focus on. You have to find your own footing to climb out of that dark hole. No one is going to just pull you out of that job you hate. As much great advice you can collect, no one is going to yank you out of that circle of toxic people. Lastly, no one can heal for you. Your happiness is your responsibility which means, the initiative is yours to take. Don't believe me? Keep waiting. When life hits, it REALLY hits. You'll be okay though. You've been through tough times before. Wipe your face and get started. 

It's Okay to Take a Break: 2020 is Not Normal

There's been a lot of pressure to create more, learn a new skill, and develop a new stream of income as the world quarantines. For many, it feels as though time has been moving slower than ever. A lot of us feel this weird guilt about not taking advantage of this new time that we have. Rest assure, you should not feel that way. Your main focus should be on your mental health this year. Between going through a pandemic and then witnessing the racial tension the world chose to sweep under the rug finally explode, all on top of your own personal issues, you have every right to focus on catching your breath before you do anything.